In several articles, I’ve talked about the need for narcissistic people have narcissistic build their relationships through measures of seduction. This seduction has to do with the charm, with the attraction, with a lure and of course, that always has to go in the opposite direction, they expect adulation, flattery and admiration. Seduction does not occur in a vacuum need a mail merge. Not only of the couple, but also of all the people that surrounds. Seduction, courtship, the verbiage are their weapons of what, of manipulation and you admire them and shine like Suns in any situation. If there is no brightness there are no emotions in relationships, and much less on the couple. Now, I will refer to some of the ways in which the narcissistic love used in relationships that establish: the first point is victimized: in relations with the narcissistic, there is always a victim, and that is the couple. Requires minimize to the maximum, otherwise, he or she could not show his superiority and greatness.
It is a misleading that it always confuses the couple, because on one hand it is admired, look on the other, totally desvalorizada. The second aspect is the humiliation: denigrate and devaluing the couple achieved through this stance. Most importantly, this happens when least expected and deal with situations that have no value. They are often contradictory and feel bearers of truth and morality. Any element is therefore worthy to be humiliated. In some ways, once achieved the shame of the couple, the battle has won, because that gives them power. Confusion then, becomes a way of dealing with the pain. The third tool is to blame: becomes the oppressor of the relationship and always the attitudes of the couple are passed by a standard of what he considers his morality. Yes no adapts to these judgments, the couple, you will suffer the vicissitudes of shame, humiliation and guilt.